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When compassion becomes your biggest weakness in a world that rewards hardness. “You Too Dey Feel Am”, The Culture That Punishes Kindness In Nigeria, we grow up being told: “Be patient.” “Endure.” “Don’t let your good heart change.” But what…
When compassion becomes your prison, and guilt keeps you from setting yourself free. The Hidden Pain of the ‘Strong African Abroad’ You moved abroad for peace, progress, and purpose.But instead, you found yourself carrying everyone’s emotional weight, from 7,000 miles…
When your good heart becomes the reason you’re always tired, broke, or disappointed. “Unafeel sana” When Empathy Becomes Emotional Suicide In Kenya, people love to say “You have such a big heart.” But what they don’t tell you is that…
When compassion turns into self-destruction, and why our hearts deserve boundaries. “You’re Too Soft, Man”, The Kindness That Breaks You In South Africa, we’ve built a culture on ubuntu, “I am because we are.”It’s beautiful. It’s powerful. It’s what kept…
Hidden Red Flag: When love fades quietly, not suddenly. The Breakup That Doesn’t Start With a Goodbye In South Africa, people talk about “toxic” relationships, cheating, or ghosting, but few talk about the slow fade. It’s not loud. It’s not…
Hidden Red Flag: The heartbreak that happens when ambition outpaces attention. The Love That Faded Across Time Zones Nobody talks about how lonely love can be in the diaspora.Everyone sees the pictures, the smiles, the new city, the “we’re building”…
Because not every heartbreak starts with a fight, sometimes, it starts with silence. The Heartbreak That Doesn’t Announce Itself In Nigeria, people talk a lot about cheating, toxic partners, and “ghosting”, but almost no one talks about the slow fade.…
Hidden Red Flag: When someone leaves emotionally long before they walk away. The Heartbreak That Sneaks Up on You In Nairobi, people talk a lot about ghosting, cheating, or red flags, but few ever talk about the slow fade. It’s…
When Betrayal Hits in South Africa Here, relationships don’t just belong to you and your partner. They’re community business, from your family to your neighbors, sometimes even your pastor. When betrayal happens, whether through cheating, lies, or broken promises, it…
